Let’s have a chat a profile names, because your profile name along with a photo is first thing someone will see when they see your profile. If you were talking to an advertising guru you might find them saying a dramatic name is something that will get their attention. But are you looking for the attention of the right man or the masses out there.

Before I started writing this I have done a little research and found that the dating industry uses very interesting advertising to get people onto their sites as well as people who write about dating , getting you to read their books.

Now you might have seen my catchy name at the top of my page, Miss Lucy’s Naked Truth. I assure you whatever you might like to believe or not believe I am fully clothed while writing this. My name is about exposing myths not clothing, yet some will still read it as if at any moment they might get a glimpse of nudity. Sorry guys move on lol.

I have also been reading several book on finding the right man. Oh dear that was an eye opener. I was starting to wonder if I believed any of it or it was just like the miracle diet pills that will keep you thin, fit and perky even if you eat rubbish and don’t exercise.

Now I am not making a comment on the books, they may be a really great read but “Woman’s guide to dating and being irresistible,” 16 ways to get him to crave you and keep his attention…..” Make him beg to be your boyfriend in six simple steps,” Love this one “The power of the Pussy- how to get what you want from men..”

I have not read these books but immediately thought that they gave the impression that even if a man finds you completely not his cup of tea, you will be able to drag him into you black widow nest and suck the life right out of him. I will spend the time to read them soon, but I have to say the names made me cringe and think of how lucky my man is that I did not have this knowledge when I was dating..

Of course most books are written to inform in some way and we read them for entertainment and information. Warning this Blog is written by someone who is motivated my happiness which may not entail finding a rich man and dragging him in with my pussy. I do not even have a cat.

So this brings me to profile names and what name we might like to use to portray ourselves..

So start thinking about your profile name and what it says about you. Your user name should have some synergy with the person you are trying to portray and the person who would be most attracted to your qualities. Do you think you would click on the profile of any of these men?

• Single4Ever – Who would advertise this
• Gr8LoverBoy – Rather find that out as a surprise after you meet, not as his profile
• KeepItSimple – What? No commitment, lives in a caravan WHAT?
• MonkinTraining – Whinging about not getting sex
• Gift2You – Oh Please !!
• Hard4YouBaby – Get over yourself,
• SteveTheLover – Lovers are from experience not always worth keeping or dependable
• WontbeSorryJohn – Has someone told him this before?
• DreamLover – A great song but does not attract me
• LovelessAndy – Poor dear, be someone else’s problem. Too negative just in your name…

If you are creating your user name you might want to write a list of things you enjoy, or believe in.

• Leave sex related words out of your name as it will attract any living breathing man, even the ones who are looking for a one night stand or conquest. Let’s face it if I called myself NakedMissLucy – what message am I sending out there? HotForYou – Not real classy if you are a classy girl
• Do not create a user name that says nothing about you. Looking4You – says nothing about you LetsMatchUp- that is why you are on the site.
• Negative words like Desperate, lonely, sad, and jilted, etc. do not make you sound like you will be fun. Perhaps in need of therapy?

Choose a profile name that portrays your likes and something about your sense of humour and personality. Interests etc Do a Search of positive words and think about what these words mean to you.
Remember the first thing they may read is your name. Does Mary1234 really sound exciting?