Who am I? and why am I writing this blog?
Well I can tell you now I am not everyone’s cup of tea (Washing away the myths)
Which is ok, because every one is here for a different and unique reason.
My name is Lucy and I have from time to time been called Miss Lucy which has brought up connotations that I could be a dominatrix or a madam in a Brothel. I am not either of these but have very good organizational skills and probably could be great at both. I love to sew so I could make some really great outfits. This may be another page to this blog.
The truth is I am a constantly changing creature , as life has changed so have I.  Yes in bad situations I could be described as a pushy opinionated Bitch. Sometimes I probably wear that hat, and really who does not?

Lets face it, you hear and read a lot about finding yourself.  I am not sure if anyone is ever lost or perhaps the truth is we all are. But the time spent purely finding yourself seems less important as you get older because your realize as soon as something is found, there is a newer version available.

Yes I will give my opinion, I will contribute to a conversation, I do care about the planet etc, I am passionate about my friends and family
I am not the woman today that I was when I was twenty. and THANK GOODNESS FOR THAT>>>>>>>
Being over 40 was a great gift for me, being fifty is an even greater gift. Lets face it, you might not like getting older but the alternative is a hell of a lot worse.

I want you to take a good hard look at your fantastic life and realise how amazing you really are, not how overweight or old.
Get your shit together girls. You no longer have to walk around in twin sets with pearls, you do not have to be in a relationship, you can now choose to be.
Botox won’t last and one day you have to really accept who you are, laugh at how ridiculous you are and become happy in whatever body you have.
Don’t put off the bucket list until another time. Start doing little things at a time, set small goals and when you achieve them life gets back its magic.

I have realised that you do not need a degree in something to be good at it and that life experience is the very best teacher of all.
I owned a very successful business and gave it up to move to the beach with my daughter. People said I was crazy needed some anti depressants and should see a doctor. HOW FUNNY IN HINDSIGHT
I regret nothing and am living a very happy life, whilst many of those people who thought I was unwell now visit me for holidays.
I want women to know what the word “selfish” really means and many us have for far too long had the word thrown at us by people who want to control us by guilt.

More about my life and skills soon.